My intention was to sign off on this daily blog with nothing but gratitude and positive messages. Then, I opened the paper this morning and found a horrifying obituary. Father to one of our Quest leaders. Husband to a member of the Black Apron Brigade for musical. Only 58. Steve heard the rescue call yesterday morning of a man shot, but never connected the address to this family. It is heartwrenching and I know the family will never be the same.
Although I am terribly sad tonight, I also recognize that I have so much to be grateful for. Events like this remind me both of my good fortune and how fragile life is. Until Nov. 8, this was an amazing year, especially for me personally.
After eight years of hard labor, I finished my book. It may seem strange to place that item at the top of my list, but it's my accomplishment. Not something I am or have borne or my status or job. The book represents my work, my effort, my thoughts, my experiences, my life. I've had plenty of help along the way and certainly could not have done it without my husband and my friends in Penelope and all the folks who have participated in Quest over the last 28 years.
My three wonderful sons and incredible daughter-in-law are our greatest blessings. We always joke that they are happy, healthy, employed and insured. But, it's true. They've all been through very tough times, but succeeded. They worked hard to get where they are and we're very proud of them.
Besides our domestic trips to California, NYC, Columbus and New Jersey, we took two amazing foreign trips this year. The first one to Scotland with the family was a delight. The trip to Australia celebrated our 45th wedding anniversary. We are incredibly fortunate. So many friends have been widowed or divorced. Our 45 years are an extraordinary accomplishment.
Although my joints are wearing thin and painful, I am healthy, with enough strength to backpack 50 miles and swim 117 miles in a summer. Thirty-two of my classmates have not made it this far, so I know how fortunate I am.
I have decided not to end the blog completely. I'll post once or twice a week, especially when I have updates on the publication of the book. It's been quite a valuable exercise and I'm thankful I gave blogging a try. Farewell!
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