Written by Amor Towles and set in NYC, Rules of Civility is the story of one pivotal year in the life of Katey Kontent, the self-made daughter of a Russian immigrant. The timing was right for a diversion and I let the book sweep me away. The writing was so incisive, sophisticated and engaging that I couldn't put it down today.
The Rules refer to a set of guidelines for acceptable social behavior prepared by George Washington that Tinker, one of the male characters, uses to worm his way into high society circles. Tinker utilizes these rules in unscrupulous ways to ingratiate himself to others and gain favors.
The rules are innocuous and actually could benefit society if they are not twisted and corrupted. Common courtesies are rare today and public behaviors are often gross and off-putting. In the days following a tragedy, the callousness or caring of another human being can have a profound impact. I chose a quiet day for reflection. My heart was so heavy, but gathering with friends this evening brought me joy.
"22d Shew not yourself glad at the misfortune of another though he were your enemy." A lesson that could benefit Donald Trump and his minions.
"50th Be not hasty to believe flying reports to the disparagement of any." Wait until all the facts are gathered.
"56th Associate yourself with Men of Good Quality if you esteem your own reputation; for tis better to be alone than in bad company."
Again, too tired to function any more. I'll post the photos tomorrow.
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