Friday, June 28, 2013

Day 545: Kids are home!

Two days with kids under our roof!  Even though they will be busy with the wedding and we will be busy with the tour, it is so wonderful to have them home for a while.  We had dinner together at Wing City cause April can't find good wings in NYC.   Then we dashed home for strawberry and raspberry shortcake, her favorite.  Quiet, Colin says, it's so quiet here.  I ask him about work.  When he joined Lindsey's design firm, he was the seventh employee, now two years later, they have 18.  Tonight they are off to see friends and revel in their old haunts.  They are happy in their lives and that makes us so very happy for them.


Steady rain fell most of the day here in Fredonia, but other communities were swamped.  Steve spent hours in Brocton helping to evacuate a trailer park because a creek had overflowed it banks and cut folks off from the main road.  Rain kept me from puttering in the garden, but I still managed to capture several beautiful images.




Chautauqua Cha Cha in raindrops



Pink lily in raindrops



Our kids


Red Rum in the rain


Thursday, June 27, 2013

Day 544: Quest party





The second lily of 2013

The Quest party was tonight.  Although it was a small turn out, we had a lovely time.  We watched both the 2009 and 2010 videos to see our juniors and seniors when they were in 8th grade.  Colin produced both of  the videos and they are beautifully composed.   He made excellent music choices that really fit the action.  
Tomorrow, he and April will be home for Heather and Leah's wedding.  We can't wait to see them!  They are taking a bus, so we will pick them up at the airport and have dinner together.  We haven't had a meal together with them since February.  I miss the banter and laughter that takes place around the table.  It feels like there is a piece missing from my heart.    


Wednesday, June 26, 2013

Day 543: Marriage Equality

Much of the nation is celebrating tonight because the Supreme Court ruled both DOMA and Prop 8 unconstitutional by votes of 5-4!  We are so happy!  For DOMA, the four liberals and Justice Anthony Kennedy were in the majority.  But for Prop 8, a strange alliance of Breyer, Ginsburg, Kagan, Roberts and Scalia formed the majority and said that case was improperly before the court. That ruling then permits same sex marriage to resume in California.  


The historic decisions will have a profound long term impact on life in the US.  Although the rulings do not extend marriage equality to all states, the decisions set a principle that will permit other plaintiffs to challenge laws in the other 37 states.   Discrimination is crumbling legally, although there is still work to do.




The finished patio!
The entire yard is ready and I really wish the tour was today.  


The first day lily of 2013


Japanese iris 

Tuesday, June 25, 2013

Day 542: Little Blue Bug

We made huge progress on the last few details of preparation.  Steve gave our little blue bug a face lift by adding red and black spots to the blue background.  I finished all the potting and planting, cleared the patio and put all the tools away.  Plus, I mowed the entire yard again.  Then swam 100 lengths.  And grocery shopped.  Sunday will be a day of relaxation and no gardening!

The best part of the day was book club at Kate's.  We read Salt, Sugar, Fat by Michael Moss, who won the Pulitzer Prize.  Very few of us finished reading, but benefitted tremendously from the reading and discussion.    The book focuses on how food manufacturers hook us by adding sugar, salt and fat to foods so that we become addicted.  Our society is increasingly mobile, preoccupied and busy, we have become a nation of grazers.  Families don't cook as much as when we were growing up or even when we were raising our children.  Rather than eating three healthy meals, people bounce from snacks to convenience foods, to take out.   It's no wonder that obesity is epidemic!

Kate always creates a relaxed and friendly atmosphere so stories start pouring out.  After a few folks left, Pam mentioned that she hadn't seen any bats lately.  That comment unleashed a dozen hysterical bat stories.

Years ago, when Justin was about fifteen, a bat flew in the back door, swooped around living room, then disappeared into the space between the log wall and the ceiling.  I figured there was nothing we could do until it reappeared.  The next evening, we were sitting on the sofa watching tv, waiting for its inevitable reappearance.  Suddenly, the bat flew out from between the couch cushions that I was sitting on.  It zoomed around and around but it was so high that we couldn't get close to it.  I finally sent the boys to bed and closed myself in the bedroom to read.  Where was Steve?  Not home.

Not long afterward, I heard a scratching sound and the bat found its way into the bedroom by creeping along a log.  It flapped around the room just over my head.  I ducked under the covers and called for Justin.  When it paused for a rest I darted out of the room and we hatched a plan.  

I was afraid it would scratch or bite us or get caught in our hair.    We donned rain coats, grabbed  badminton racquets and put laundry baskets over our heads.  Then we reentered the room, opened the window and swung madly at the poor bat.  We got laughing so hard that we threw caution to the wind and took off the baskets.   Finally, the bat must have sensed the cool air and flew outside.

On a serious note, the Supreme Court ruled today that Section Five of the Voting Rights Act of 1965 is unconstitutional by a vote of 5-4.  John Roberts justified the ruling by writing that the country has changed.  Certainly not enough!  There was a huge uproar this weekend when General Mills released a Cherrios commercial that featured an interracial couple.

Two hours after the ruling was announced., Texas acted to limit the voting right of minorities.

Tomorrow, the ruling on DOMA and Prop 8 is due.  Millions are holding their collective breath.


Little Blue Bug


Potted, waiting to be positioned.

Monday, June 24, 2013

Day 541: Finishing details

The super moon was a dazzling sight to behold.  We opened the front door and there it was!






We zipped up to Buffalo to take care of the last few details for Saturday and the reunion.  We picked up four of the plastic adirondack chairs to place around the yard.  They look terrific.

The pool was up to 82 degrees, the perfect temperature.  I was able to swim 150 lengths, so I should sleep soundly tonight!

Sunday, June 23, 2013

Day 540: FHS Graduation 2013


Jon Cole performed beautifully on the marimba


Maura Heary McDonald and her oldest son presented an award in memory of her father, Tom Heary.
Tom was our beloved high school principal for nearly twenty years.  He died of leukemia at age 54.


Kiel Mead, our keynote speaker, hit just the right note of humor, practical advice and a thoughtful reflection on the importance of building community.  At age 29, he is incredibly successful.  He was on  the Forbes List of 30 under 30 to watch, partly for his designs, but also because he has built the American Design Club, which is a collaborative effort to promote artists.  Kiel spoke about how the community came together to support his family when his dad was suffering from ALS.  I always knew he was pretty special, but of course had no idea how he would direct his energies.  In fact, that's what he spoke about.  He didn't know exactly what direction he would take 11 years ago when he graduated.  I think of him and Colin hanging out in our basement, playing games and creating crazy stories.  


School Board members, Kiel and Supt. DiFonzo



Saturday, June 22, 2013

Day 539: Finished Gardens


Patio garden


Front Walk


Steve touching up the mulch 


Back deck gardens


At 3:00, we finished the gardens!  A tiny pile of mulch, out of 13 yards,  remains for touch ups.  Steve even mowed today in case the rain this week prevents us from mowing again.  Now, if the deer leave the plants untouched and the weeds don't sprout too much, we are set.  Eight more containers remain to be filled and distributed.  The forecast is for rain every day, but I am hopeful that we'll have a decent crowd and the Opera House will raise substantial funds.  

Our two senior student leaders are graduating tomorrow and of course, their parties were at exactly the same time today.  Jake and Reed have been important members of the Quest team. Both are very bright, capable and personable.  We wish them much happiness and success.